your work, those steps include: Searching for Text: find unique phrases in your bio and search for them in Google. I love Sundays spent drinking massive amounts of coffee and lingering over newspapers and comics (yes, I read comics). Write a shopping list "I'm looking for someone who's tall, funny, intelligent, kind, loyal, romantic, sociable." For readers, they're both dull to read and incredibly daunting. Women who look directly into the camera for their profile picture receive far more responses than women who look away. Which brings me to my next tip. Nå har bøndene bedt politiet gripe inn. Give people a reason to message you to learn more. If you're divorced/separated with children, use the drop-down menu to reveal that.